What happens If .....

What happens If... post deals with negative thoughts which flashes in our mind when we are planning to pursue our dreams or ambition. The ambition need not be creating a billion dollar company, but it can be anything in day today life to dreaming of becoming a successful politician...
The most frequent thought which flashes in anyones mind is What happens if I fail.. What happens if I could not perform.. etc.. especially when one has to move from his/her comfort zone. Moving out from the comfort zone is one of the toughest tasks as you may have to sacrifice the comfy working environment, flashing monthly salaries etc.. Negative thoughts brings negative energy and pulls one down and makes the most easiest task look harder. Better said than done, launch a counter attack on the negative thought, What happens if I succeed.. What happens if I perform well.. Ya first you asked yourself What happens if I fail.. which is answered by another question... what if I succeed.. 
 
Have you ever failed in your life: Refresh your memory and think for while about the moments where you failed in your life. Most of us would say I haven’t failed so far or I don't remember such a moment.. Let me remind you.. Do you how to ride a bicycle.. How many times you fell down when you were attempting to ride a bicycle? Did you ever think what happens if I fell down again? Probably no.. You simply stood up and tried again and again until succeed. Don’t shy away from failure.. Everyday is a new day.. Rise and shine.
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Over come the fear of failure: What brought the negative thoughts is fear of failure. Fear makes one weak, hindering the thinking capacity.When you haven't attempted how do you know you are going to fail. Why to think about failure and develop failure phobia. Fear of failure will drag you towards failure. Fortune favors the brave.
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Failures are stepping stones:   Behind every successful personalities lies the numerous failures they have come across. They would have never succeeded if they would have thought what happens if.. all they did is learn from their failures and ink their success story. Failures are the stepping stone for success.
 

Positive thoughts: Positive thinking can make a big difference. Instead of thinking about failures dream about success. Instead of thinking about failures think about how to avoid failures. Instead of thinking of the hurdles, find a way to cross hurdle. Positive think completely changes the equation. You can't stop the waves but u can always learn to surf
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Folks... Hope all might have heard about the Great migration in Africa where almost 1.5million Wildebeest, 20,000 Zebra, Gazels, Antelope migrates from Tanzania in search of fresh grass and water. On the way the herds have to face hunger struck 3000 lions, Leopards, cheetah and other predators. To reach the grasslands their last hurdle is to cross Mara river where crocodiles are waiting for the herds to arrive. In the next few days Mara river becomes blood river with crocodiles feasting on fresh protein. Though almost 250,000 wildebeest and 20,000 Zebras perish due to predators hunting and due to exhaustion with lack of food and water, yet the herds can never afford to think "What happens If " otherwise they will be left alone and become easy prey for big cats.
Great migration is an excellent example of overcoming the fear, learning from failure and  moving on with positive mindset.
Are you going to be left alone, lost and thinking "What happens if.." or move on and taste success. Its high time to decide.

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